Planning Ahead

So I think I have come to a mini-conclusion about my obsessive planning. For one I think that the amount of stress that it adds to my life depends on what the events or situation is. Like I mentioned earlier, if I'm planning ahead for a 3 day weekend, it doesn't seem to be the end of the world. But on the other aspect of this is when I start to commit myself to so many different projects/groups/jobs/etc, then the over planning becomes necessary just to keep my life in order. That's where the problem lies. I have to be able to prioritize what is truly important, and commit to that first, and when other things come up I need to learn to say no thank you I have another commitment. I need to nip the stress in the bud, before it becomes something uncontrollable. If I stop spreading myself too thin, I will reduce the amount of stressors in my life.